For many decades, many believed that neurodivergence, specifically Autism and ADHD – was a predominantly male experience. However, a recent study published in The BMJ (2026) has revealed that by adulthood, the rates of autism are almost identical in men and women.
The research tracked millions of individuals in Sweden and found that while boys are often diagnosed by age 10, girls experience a “catch-up” period during adolescence. While social expectations might lead girls to “mask” or hide their traits, the underlying brain wiring is the same across genders.
Same brain, different gender
According to the university of Cambridge’s Autism Research Centre, the way the brain processes information, such as spotting patterns or logical processing are a shared trait. Regardless of gender, neurodivergent individuals frequently experience neurological responses to overwhelming environments, challenges with executive function such as moving between tasks and staying organised and a deep sense of social justice and fairness.
The disappearing gender gap in neurodivergence reminds us that while society may categorise us by outward behaviour, the brain does not. Whether a child is diagnosed at seven or an adult finds their answers at thirty-seven, the underlying need for understanding remains the same. Recognising these shared neurological foundations the key to effective, neuro-affirming care.
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We believe that the best support often comes from a place of understanding. We are proud to have counsellors and staff members with lived experience of neurodivergence on our team. They understand first hand the nuances of masking, the weight of sensory overload, and the strengths of a neurodivergent mind.
If you or someone you know would like to talk to a professional who understands the neurodivergent journey, get in touch today.